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12 Steps

 

Al-Anon twelve steps, adapted from A.A’s twelve steps guide us to a new and healthy way of life and provide a framework for the groups to operate.

 

1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.

 

2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

 

3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

 

4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

 

5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

 

6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

 

7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

 

8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

 

9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

 

10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

 

11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

 

12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

 


 

12 Traditions

 

The twelve traditions bind us together in unity. They provide guidance to the different groups in their relations with other groups, A.A and the outside world. These are a result of the collective experience of A.A groups in solving their problems and living together.

 

1. Our common welfare should come first; personal progress for the greatest number depends upon unity.

 

2. For our group purpose there is but one authority—a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants—they do not govern.

 

3. The relatives of alcoholics, when gathered together for mutual aid, may call themselves an
Al-Anon Family group, provided that as a group, they have no other affiliation. The only requirement for membership is that there be a problem of alcoholism in a relative or friend.

 

4. Each group should be autonomous, except in matters affecting another group or Al-Anon or AA as a whole.

 

5. Each Al-Anon Family Group has but one purpose: to help families of alcoholics. We do this by practicing the Twelve Steps of AA ourselves, by encouraging and understanding our alcoholic relatives, and by welcoming and giving comfort to families of alcoholics.

 

6. Our Family Groups ought never endorse, finance or lend our name to any outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary spiritual aim. Although a separate entity, we should always co-operate with Alcoholics Anonymous.

 

7. Every group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.

 

8. Al-Anon Twelfth Step work should remain forever non-professional, but our service centers may employ special workers.

 

9. Our groups, as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.

 

10. The Al-Anon Family Groups have no opinion on outside issues; hence our name ought never be drawn into public controversy.

 

11. Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, films, and TV. We need guard with special care the anonymity of all AA members.

 

12. Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles above personalities.

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